Sex during pregnancy
Many women and their partners worry that having sex may harm their children, but this is not the case. You can continue to have sex during pregnancy as long as there are no complications with the pregnancy and you both want to.
Your baby is well supported by a bag of fluid that bypasses the cervix (cervix). There is no medical evidence to suggest that having sex during pregnancy causes any harm to the baby.
A loving physical relationship is important for your well-being during pregnancy, and intercourse can actually help your body prepare for childbirth. Your partner's penis can't penetrate outside the vagina, and your baby can't tell what's going on.
It is normal for sex drive to change during pregnancy. Don't worry about it, but talk about it with your partner.
Later in pregnancy, orgasm or even sex itself can lead to contractions (known as Braxton Hicks contractions). If this happens, your uterine muscles will feel stiff. This is completely normal and there is no need to alarm. If you feel discomfort, try relaxation techniques or lie quietly until contractions pass.
Your midwife or doctor will likely advise you to avoid sex if you experience any heavy bleeding during pregnancy, as this risks infecting the baby — especially if your water sac breaks.
Some couples find sex very enjoyable during pregnancy, while others simply feel like they don't want to have sex. You can find other ways to be a lover or make love. The most important thing is to talk about your feelings with each other.
Different situations
While sex is safe for most couples during pregnancy, it may not be that easy. You will most likely need to find different jobs. This can be a time to explore and experiment together. Having sex with your partner at the top can become uncomfortable very early in pregnancy, not only because of the bump but because your breasts can be sore. It can also be uncomfortable if your partner penetrates deep into you. So it may be best to lie on your sides, either facing each other or with your partner behind you.